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Born and raised in a country where both genders are equal, German women are dominant in most facets of life. They like to laugh, know how to have a good time, and will probably drink you under the table. They are not used to being propositioned in the streets and most German ladies hate machismo. The fairer German sex are not used german men and dating compliments on their appearance, because German men are simply not good at this.

If you compliment them, they will probably not believe you. Yet, they are flattered by attention and romance. Germans do not understand the concept of a minute grace period. You must be on time. Fashionably late is just late to them and not excusable. Note: Please take this article with at pinch of salt. These tips are only general cultural guidelines for aliens who have just landed and observations and individuals vary widely.

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I am dating a German guy? And he is very special to me and I really love and appreciate him? I have been talking to him for 8 months and german men and dating really a kind nice person?

I had a brain aneurysm surgery and he was away when I had my surgery? But he would call me every day to see how I was doing after my surgery? What a blessing he is to me in the name of Jesus?

Great insight. I have German ancestry- way back- but perhaps that is where my need to be on time ok a bit early comes from. And as my hubby will tell you, when we met I was very upfront about what I was looking for. I shared my list with him- girlfriends thought I was nuts. But in my 30s I needed that German clarity! I just love your take on us Germans. Having spent far more time abroad than in Germany I have little German romances to look back upon.

Now I wonder if that is good or bad. Best free apps montreal I could try my luck with a young at heart old age pensioner in Germany? On second thoughts Sue - It badoo single ladies like your German-ness has followed you to Canada.

I think getting clarity when you're in your 30s is a good thing. I did the same thing when I first met J.

I think most guys would have gone running, but he appreciated that I didn't want to start anything when we were over km apart if we had different ideas of what we both wanted. Inka - The Saudi prince sounds more like your style :. Italian Notes. Very convincing and highly entertaining plea for the lovable Germans. I enjoyed it:. Sounds like you found a great one : Love your perspective on us Germans!

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Love the whole "he'll call when he says he'll call" thing. I was soooo confused when I first moved to Texas and people men, women, anybody! You just made me realize how German I am despite having been gone for a while now. Sabrina - I love hearing your German perspective now that you're living in the U. I like the German way for this much better, way less confusing and I think I'll keep J. The whole package actually sounds pretty good!

And even then, what do I know?! One thing that surprised german men and dating when I was traveling last winter, is that a lot of Chinese women beijing ad seemed to travel as two couples, i. Laurel, excellent perspective of german guys! I am so glad with my german boyfriend, I feel protected and safe, because he means what he speaks I lived it!

I just knew a German guy on the internet. We writoe to each other alot every day. And step by step i felt in love with him and i thought the he got the same way in me as he planed a trip for this Christmas to come to my country.

He also planed for our future We were so happy and shared anything we did daily to each other. He ignored my calls and sms after his Berlin business trip last Saturday.

We still chatted abit at night of that day, and he said he would write to me next day and he also ensured that our relationship is not dying. However, i did not receive any news from him later I think we are over, even that we cant be normal friends anymore. I just dont know what really happened with him and with us. I have blamed myself that if i did something wrong to make him angry? He just ignored all my calls and sms, but he does not blocked me or delete my contact. Can you guys tell me why?

And what can i do now.? Thank you! I could have a lot of issues here. Annie - FootTracker. A guy that plans!! Turns head, that is amazing. A guy that is honest!!! I like the upfront honesty you ascribe to German men rather than the juvenile gamesmanship of some other cultures.

I was told that a man can 'tell' you he loves you all he wants, but the ones who 'show' you through the little things german men and dating build a life together are worth their weight in gold. Nice story in the Telegraph - Happy Valentine's Day! Tiffany No Ordinary Homestead.

The thing about guys not paying for girls kinda bugs me -- I mean where's the incentive for the girl if he's never going to pick up the tab and show he's really into her? And it's definitely a common thing over here -- although I think some Americans have started picking up on that as well.

My German Latin lover inside joke from a stupid dating show on MTV where the girl referred to a French guy as a Latin lover -- cause it's totally close to the same thing, right? And he's more sentimental. I think that any girl who ends up with a German guy is lucky, because they can often be very giving and aware of your needs. Of course my guy lived in the US for his formidable teen years, so perhaps that doesn't count :. Christy Technosyncratic. This is totally my kind of romance! German men and dating time?

Does what dating new zealand singles says? Plans things in advance?

That kind of stuff is amazing. I didn't date so much in Germany, so I have no clue how close the German women fall to this. I assume there is some similarity. At least an interesting read. Though when I go out to the bars with friends and do our normal people watching, it is often hard to tell the couples. Germans seem german men and dating socialize in larger groups. I clearly need to relocate to Germany. I do a lot of the above and it's just not appreciated by Aussie girls. The rules are very much ingrained here, german men and dating.

It's too fast and loose, haha. That and, let's face it, German girls are gorgeous. Ne - Ha, that's funny, I'm actually sitting and working beside two Aussie men at the moment During my two years in Germany, I only dated one german man - a guy who was funny, a planner and took me to probably one of the most unexpected first dates at that time, that is, while being a student.

He picked me up in his car without telling me where we were going and so we ended up in a neighboring town having a very regional dinner with wine in an old watermill, overlooking a beautiful bridge. I was seriously impressed as I thought it was overly romantic! I think its hilarious how Americans say that Germans are cold and closed off all the time because we aren't. We just aren't fake.

I hear it almost every day at work. Most people don't realize I'm German when they first meet me because my dad is American, I have no accent in English, so I hear the gripes and complaints. I definitely had culture shock in the states with the super friendliness, fake friendliness at that. I never really know what to say so people think I'm the weird one LOL I've had people tell me their life stories after knowing them 5 minutes and I find it awkward and uncomfortable. I honestly have no idea how to respond because I don't know german men and dating.

As a rule in Germany, once you break the ice, everything is fine.


And if you have no clue what to talk about with german men and dating to get rid of that awkward silence, german men and dating, you can never go wrong with the weather. Germans LOVE talking weather, weird but true. We love to talk but until we know someone, we won't be telling a person about our latest gynecology appointment in line at the grocery store true story. Zhu - I've live in Germany and still don't find the German language sexy.

Traveling in couples or with friends is popular in Germany. It looks like a lot of fun. Andreza - Glad to hear that you've found happiness with a German guy. The honesty took me a while to get used to, but now that I'm used to it, I would find it difficult to be with someone more indirect.

Ayngelina - Maybe, if he really doesn't like you, he won't bother to say that he'll call, but if he's not sure, he'll say he'll call you, think it over and then deliver the verdict. Annie - I know badoo ladies Come to Germany and I'll introduce you to a few guys : Jo - new free chat rooms like you've found a great one and I love the flowers, my hubby is good at doing that too.

Too funny that your guy also says that he'll "invite" you, J. Best of luck with your move to Stuttgart, I really enjoyed the Expat Dinner Club you can find it on Facebookthere's also an Internations chapter and I attended IFA language school, which is tough,but thorough. Linda - I agree, actions speak louder than words and mean more. Thanks for your kind words about our Telegraph story. Tiffany - I found the paying thing confusing at first and slightly annoying as well.

I agree that German guys can be very giving. I wish J. Christy - Agreed, it would have been boring when I was 20, but in my 30s this is the kind of stuff that I like. Andrew - I would assume there's a lot of similarity for German women as well, but German men and dating haven't dated any German women either. Chris - Yes, move to Germany, where you will be appreciated by the women - as long as you don't mind if they make plans in advance : Katherina - That is incredibly romantic, especially for a first date!

Most Germans I know are more pragmatic on a first date, preferring to meet for coffee or a drink. Jessica - I admit that I was one of those people who thought Germans were cold at first as well - until I understood the reason why Germans are like that. To be honest I hadn't considered being friendly "fake" until I moved to Germany and heard the German perspective.

I agree that many North Americans overshare, especially when they don't know someone very well. My husband has accused me of this as german men and dating in Germany, even when I think I'm being conservative with what I say. Germans questions to ask online dating email also more comfortable with silence than North Americans are - something that I admire. In a way it's sad that they may call just to german men and dating they don't like you but I think that's better than leaving a girl hanging.

German specific or not I have to agree that the qualities you list are good to have. I loved reading this. Finding bloggers in Germany that are not German is a hobby of mine! My favorite part of your blog was that German men will call you, maybe if just to tell you they don't like you, because they said they would.

German rules! I imagine it's pages long and I want a copy, primarily so I can check off the rules I break daily. Thanks for the blog! Masha 2away.

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This is a very funny, but a very accurate description of German men :- Great post! When you put it like that it makes German guys sounds pretty attractive to my German ears : you guys sounds like a great couple btw.

Congratulations on having found each other! Mariella - Yeah, I think I'm going to keep mine.


We definitely have our cultural differences, but most days I feel pretty lucky :. Kristi - Glad to hear it. I fell for my now German husband very fast as well. Hope it works out for you.

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Keep me posted. I think this is a good article. I have just started seeing somebody from East Germany The most important thing to remember is that German men are unfailingly honest and they do have a strict moral code, well most of them.

Those from decent families If my boyfriend emails me to say he can't meet our skype session, you can believe it's true, no hanky panky. Honestly, he's working harder than ever because he wants to come back to the Meet singles in tucson az to see me.

German men are very goal oriented when it comes to work. This guy has financial goals and everything he does feeds into that No, he doesn't profess his love or tell me all the time how sexy or cute I am. That is something German men don't think to do But he is making me a priority by earning enough money to come back soon, maybe spend the winter here and maybe pack up and move his business here, all of which we are starting to plan for now.

I like this practical forward momentum. German men don't require guesswork, and I like that after all the other BS I've seen. And yes he pays for almost everything; another reason why work is important. He's thinking of my finances, it appears. Heather - Thanks so much for sharing your experience.

Glad to hear that you're having such a positive experience with a German man. I agree, being with someone hardworking and straight forward who doesn't play games is a very nice change :. Let me know how it works out for you. Hello Laurel I will be leaving in two weeks to see a German man in Munich. I am not sure if it was because I was brought up by German Grandparents or not but I find my guys approach to our relationship a german men and dating of fresh air. He is funny, smart, passionate in what is important to him, a hard worker, and he does those "little" things that are important to me.

I am not your typical American girl, but raised in America none the less so I enjoyed seeing your insight on German men. It gives me a "general" idea of what to expect while living in his world for 2 weeks. Thank you :. Chelle - Best of luck.

I hope it goes fabulous for you. The "little things" are what's important. I found a few of my husband's German traits a bit difficult to get used to at first, but I do appreciate the honesty and straight forward approach. Let me know how it goes - fingers crossed for you!

Gosh, I loved this post! This just checked off all my dude requirements, for real. That on top of being totally gobsmacked by the hordes of gorgeous, polite gents when I was in Munich - maybe this is the sign of where I should move to next :. Not so long ago I had the chance to spend a year surrounded by a large group of twenty-somethings coming from all corners of the world, we were scattered all over Germany and german men and dating three months we had to meet up in different cities each time for week-long seminars.

Boys were ecstatic, especially Latin ones, because German women found them very attractive and they would get very direct and intense advances quite often without having to do anything aside from standing there being all kinds of hot. Sure this was what they said, and I am neither swearing by it, nor denying it. But hanging out with the guys meant signing up for listening to a mix tape of them gushing about this and wondering if there was something in the water here that suddenly made them appealing to women, german men and dating.

Girls, on the other hand, were quite frustrated because no man would even flirt-smile at them from across the train wagon or eye them up and down while walking down the street, no overly-friendly cashiers or waiters, no swarm of men trying to get their attention at bars or clubs with buying them drinks, stopping by their table to introduce german men and dating or inviting them to dance.

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